My 21 days of Daniel fasting is done and has been a true blessing in many ways. Even when there have been so many twists and turns with covid related cancelations and frustrations and serious sickness in my family, my prayer life gave me so much peace and surrender that I haven't felt stressed at all this December. I have no power to change anything so I just surrendered it all to Jesus.
I lost a few pounds just eating veggies, fruits, nuts, berries, and a little bread and some water, but I know it will probably come back on during the holidays. It's been a long while since I last posted and I never know where to begin.
I got the news that my brother Leo was transported to the hospital by ambulance when he became paralyzed and confused. Leo is the grandfather of the 14 years old girl, Madison Roy-Boudreau, who disappeared in Bathurst on May 11 of this year. She has been declared murdered by a pedophile but her body has never been found. Her phone was found at the bottom of a river, some of her clothing and her blood in the box of the truck. This has been an extreemly difficult time in his life.
Leo had been struggling with his balance and had to use a walker since May. Then, he lost the ability to sit and walk and kept falling and could not get up. Leo is one year older than me. They found a very large tumor on his brain, 3in X 2 1/2 in, the size of a big egg on his right lobe. The biggest brain tumor his neurosurgeon ever saw. Leo's brain was swelling, causing other problems which complicated the matter.
After some delays to transport him to a larger hospital because there were no beds available because of a sudden increase of Covid cases, he finally was transported, and to make a long story short, was operated on. His very risky operation was scheduled to take 12 to 15 hours and was done in only 6 1/2 hours. After the operation, he was awake and talking and even ate applesauce. He regained the movement in his arms and in one leg but his brain was still swollen. They were going to put him in intensive care for 3 to 4 days but after the first day, they were considering taking him out of ICU. It was a very risky operation but he surprised the doctors with his speedy progress. I haven't received any updates today. He was very lucky to get in surgery as they are canceling scheduled surgeries because of a spike in new cases of Covid.
This was the best Christmas gift the family could hope for. There were a lot of prayers by many, many friends, and family and surrender to God's will for the outcome. We are all so very grateful.
The only Christmas decorations I put up were a wreath on the front door, a poinsettia, and a nativity. That will be so easy to put away come, Epiphany.
I've been hooking a little on Mary and Child rug but stopped when I didn't like how the blue mantel looked. I started to dye more shades of blue but had to stop to get my Christmas baking done. So, it looks like I'll be pulling most of the wool on the blue mantel and try again with more subtle shading. I also will be ripping out the darker blue marking in the baby's gown. It's just too dark. The baby's upper lips also need some proper color and a little tweaking.
This one was taken at night with poor lighting. I got a little more done in this photo. I really don't like how the shading turned out so it's all coming out. I find this type of shading very challenging to do. I'll try with more subtle shading when I get all my wool dyed.
I started crocheting a baby blanket using a new pattern. I can't sit for a long time because it causes my back to ache. I really like to crochet and find it relaxing when it's an easy pattern.
No family again for Christmas this year but we will have a turkey dinner with all the trimmings which we will share with two households. I'll prepare some care packages so they will be well fed at least. I've got my Christmas baking done, but I still have to make more meat pies to give away. I made two a few days ago, one for us, and one for my son Vaughan. They turned out very tasty and quickly disappeared. George and I are not exchanging gifts as we are old and have everything we need. It makes life easier in this time of Covid. No need to go shopping. The rest of the family gets money to buy something they can use.
Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays everyone. Wishing you good health. Stay well and safe and find something to be thankful for and then, we'll hang our new calendar and start all over again.
Hugs, Julia
Merry Christmas!
ReplyDeleteSending prayers for your brother and his family.
I like how your Mary and Child are looking.
Enjoy the Christmas weekend.
Love, Carla
Very heavy post upon your return to blogging and am praying for your brother. Your Mother and child is looking great.
ReplyDeleteYour posts are always interesting, Julia. I hope your brother makes a full recovery. Merry Christmas to you and your family!
ReplyDeleteThat is truly wonderful news about Leo. You couldn't have asked for a better present.
ReplyDeleteWelcome back dear friend.
Sorry about your brother, but it's good they were able to find the tumor and get it out. I hope his recovery continues to go well.
ReplyDeleteI too have reverted to giving money for gifts to DH, DS and his GF. Saves my time, energy and temper and they get what they really want. No regrets, other than the good sales are before Christmas so they might not get the bargains.
Have a Merry Christmas, and a good New Year.
Continued prayers for Leo.
ReplyDeleteYour rug is looking amazing. Happy you are finding some time to hook. Beautiful crochet, too.
Do you still have your giant poinsettias that you shared with us a couple of years ago?
Merry Christmas, my northern friend. May you find peace and love this Christmas season.
xoxo
Lauren
Thanks for the prayers Lauren and everyone.
DeleteTo answer your question. I no longer have those huge poinsettias as the got really too big for my small sunroom and I needed the space to grow my sweet potato and tomatoes and pepper plants in the spring. I kept one Poinsettia and put it outside this summer and when I brought it in this fall, I started noticing that it was infested with white flies and threw it outside to freeze as I didn't want to infest my other house plants.
I prefer the the smaller ones as they take less room.
Wow...you've had an eventful time in your time away from us...and not at all all in a good way. Scary about your brother, but grateful he is recovering so miraculously - but tragic "news" about Madison. Your rug is looking wonderful - I would never have your patience to do all the careful studying and then the tweaking...and frogging...and redoing. Guess that's why I do primitive. Sigh. Your crocheting looks meticulous as well. Even though no family get-togethers, it sounds as though you are keeping Christmas very well. I had a frozen pizza tonight. So thoughtful of you to make to-go meals for others. The meat pies sound interesting - are they like pasties? Once again, wishing you the merriest of Christmases. ~Robin~
ReplyDeleteRobin, I usually make them in pasties but this year, I was more impatient and made them into pies. I really prefer them as pasties, though.
DeleteWhat a Christmas miracle you received with your brother's successful surgery. I like the baby Jesus' lips but so agree on the shading of his clothing. Merry Christmas my friend! Janice
ReplyDeleteWhat a time your family has had. I'm happy your brother is recovering so well and will pray that continues but so sorry about his Granddaughter. I know your strong faith guides you and helps you through all the ups and downs of life. I hope you had a wonderful day today and I'm happy to see you back after your fast. Fasting and prayer can really clear the air and our spirits! Merry Christmas Julia!
ReplyDeleteI hope your brother continues to do well. And that your Christmas was peaceful. You are so right, we don't need any more stuff and the kids are happy with money gifts. I didn the same.
ReplyDeleteWhat a blessing that your brother was able to get the surgery done despite the COVID problems. But how terrible, the fate of his granddaughter. What a sadness in his twilight years. On happier notes, you fasted for a really long time! I am glad it brought you peace and benefited you in health, too.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your family Julia. I hope you have a better new year.
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